I’m a young woman in her 20s and I’m in a stable relationship. Actually I met this nice guy 3 years ago and I really love him. But he hasn’t proposed to me yet and lately he has been behaving funny. Sometimes when I call him he won’t pick up his calls for days and he never has any explanation for his behavior. Now he says that I have to inform him whenever I wish to come over to his place. I’m really confused and depressed. I don’t even know whether he loves me or not and I’m scared of losing him. What do I do please?
You sound like a lovely young lady, but I’m afraid you are wasting your time on this man! To be honest, I don’t think you should continue with this relationship. From all indications he is no longer interested in the relationship and doesn’t know how to tell you! I doubt that such a man is ‘committed’ spending time with you. Please stop calling him. Let him know that you are no longer interested if need be. Yes- you will feel really down for a while but it’s better this way. Start afresh! Get active in a social group and get closer to God.