I really need your help! I think I’m losing my mind. I’m really depressed right now because I believe my husband is cheating on me! I have been married now for 5 years with 2 children. I have confronted him about this before and he asked for forgiveness. His Company sent him abroad for a 1 year training a few months ago and I have discovered that he is cheating again! Do I leave him? Please tell me what to do.
I really sympathize with you! But I would like you to re-focus your mind on yourself and how you can achieve your own personal goals. You can also join an online women’s support or business group. This will really help you develop better coping skills. Then stop checking up on him! Don’t read emails or notes or letters sent to him. When he comes home don’t look through his pockets or his text messages! Just trust God and avoid making any accusatory or inflammatory remarks. Okay? Reinvent yourself. Men may sometimes wander off because of boredom. Try and remember the things he loved to see in your home and work out a plan to keep him engaged and interested